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Locals don’t want you to move to Hawaii?

We answered a question from Tom of Oxford PA which I know is on the mind of many: In the Beat of Hawaii blog I've seen an increasing amount of comments from Mainlanders who have been berated by negative, vulgar and offensive comments from locals, including one couple who've been going to Kauai for 20

Locals don’t want you to move to Hawaii?2021-07-01T04:44:26-10:00

How Hawaii families play in the snow

How Hawaii families play in the snow We are talking about how Hawaii was so "cold" and our Big Island partner Dylan Nonaka gave an impromptu story about how Big Island families go up Mauna Kea with their pickup trucks, load them up with snow, and then truck it back down to their front yards

How Hawaii families play in the snow2021-03-22T07:14:24-10:00

Ready to live in Hawaii?

Anyone can move to Hawaii - only a few end up living here Moving here is a cheap one-way ticket. Living here requires a deep personal transformation which is why every year more people leave from Hawaii than those coming to the islands. If you want to live in Hawaii in the best possible way,

Ready to live in Hawaii?2021-02-23T09:49:25-10:00

How can you be accepted in Hawaii?

Scott from Dallas, Texas asked: We love the Hawaiian culture, people, and history. What kind of advice can you give that would allow us to be accepted into the Hawaiian community as seamlessly as possible? Various volunteering activities in the community and through church come to mind. Are we on the right track? Mahalo Scott

How can you be accepted in Hawaii?2021-01-13T08:25:17-10:00

Leaving your shoes outside – making new friends in Hawaii 6 of 6

If you only remember one thing, this is it. Hawaii’s culture is complicated.  But there’s one thing that’s really, really important and this is it.  Be prepared to leave your shoes outside One of the very first things you’ll learn about local culture in Hawaii is that we don’t ever walk in the house with

Leaving your shoes outside – making new friends in Hawaii 6 of 62020-11-18T06:23:22-10:00

House party etiquette – making new friends in Hawaii 5 of 6

House party etiquette in Hawaii Everybody knows you’re a recent mainland transplant, so you’ve got that working against you.  If you’re ever fortunate enough to get invited to a local house party, you can do a few simple things that will speak volumes about your embrace of local culture and values.  Help out with everything

House party etiquette – making new friends in Hawaii 5 of 62020-10-22T07:25:33-10:00

It’s all about them and not you – make new friends in Hawaii – 4 of 6

It’s not about you You’ll have to resist the natural temptation to talk about yourself while keeping it all real. Here are some really simple things to follow. Make it about them You’re being given a peek at the inside circle, so what you want to do here at our mythical house party is learn

It’s all about them and not you – make new friends in Hawaii – 4 of 62020-10-05T16:42:23-10:00

Shut up and don’t be so haole to make new friends in Hawaii – 3 of 6

Your first audition - getting invited to the house party Let’s say for the purpose of discussion that you have a job and have met a bunch of people at the workplace. You’ve all become good superficial friends, meaning it feels like good friends but so far you’ve only been meeting and socializing at the

Shut up and don’t be so haole to make new friends in Hawaii – 3 of 62020-09-21T08:16:31-10:00

Some of the best ways to make new friends in Hawaii – 2 of 6

Where are some great ways to make new friends? At our last exciting episode, we talked about the difference between superficial friends and getting hanai’d into a family. On this issue we’re going to talk about some of the very best places to make new and meaningful friends. Volunteer at community events One of the

Some of the best ways to make new friends in Hawaii – 2 of 62020-09-30T06:33:59-10:00

How to Make New Friends in Hawaii Part 1 of 6

One of the first things you’ll need to do is make new friends in Hawaii.  Now of course there are common human social norms to follow in making new friends regardless of where you move so I won’t be covering that in this article, but rather I’ll talk about what is different about Hawaii’s cultural

How to Make New Friends in Hawaii Part 1 of 62020-09-14T07:25:00-10:00

How violent were Hawaii’s George Floyd demonstrations?

What were Hawaii's George Floyd demonstrations like? Over 10,000 people demonstrated in Hawaii over the murder of George Floyd.  How violent did the demonstrations get?  How do those demonstrations reflect Hawaii islander cultural values?  I cover these topics in this video. Do you have questions for me to address? Let me know in this form

How violent were Hawaii’s George Floyd demonstrations?2020-06-22T08:40:48-10:00

What will you give up if you move to Hawaii?

You probably already had dreams of what Hawaii offers like gorgeous scenery, sunsets, beaches, pristine tropical waters and perfect weather but are you really prepared for what you have to give up?  Aina was born and raised in Hawaii and also lived on the mainland so her perspective is firsthand.  Make sure you don't treasure

What will you give up if you move to Hawaii?2021-06-24T08:33:38-10:00